I texted him after he ghosted me. That was our last exchange.

I texted him after he ghosted me on the day he ghosted me, i saw that the messages on iMessage were from blue to green, indicating that he blocked me. That day he didn't say goodbye when he left work, the next day he didn't text me, so I texted him asking if everything was ok. Well today I heard from him again Yeah, he just got out of the hospital. . 5 months later i text him Im preggo and he’s freaking out. At the time, it would have been worth it had it worked. Should i text him ? I don't even like him but i just miss going out with him. All I know is I like him a lot and I want him to come back. I am pretty sure that if i contact them now, i will hear the same lame excuses and promises. He agreed. He did not. I just block people who ghost now. After promising to be the type of guy that never ghosts, he did just that. Don’t reach out him. I had a bf that would disappear for weeks and then act like nothing had happened. Sparks were flying out the wazzooo man. He said he would reach out after the second date. And he’s been avoiding me at school every time I walk by he looks down or hides behind his friends. I was heartbroken. After a few days I came to terms with the fact that he might have ghosted me. Either he’ll be contrite if he sincerely regrets his behavior or he’ll get so Although it's tempting to send angry texts to someone who ghosted you, experts say it's a bad idea. That was our last exchange. I had booked a trip to visit him (we live in different states) and I texted him why should I bother coming to see you if you are ok with no talking to me? I texted him, he replied back and I ghosted. We last had contact 10 days ago. I'm over here so anxious that I'm being ghosted and also, just confused. I started texting a guy a while ago. I tried texting him sunday night and I see that my number has been blocked lol. I did send him a message very recently on a different platform regarding the reason he ghosted me it said, very calmly, why it was a shit way to Furthermore, I wanna block him. and "there is no way he's ghosting after the dates you've had, there's an explanation and you'll know it soon. Long time friend, had a crush on me for years. anyways, he views my Instagram stories like every 1-3 days. If friendship happened, fine and if not, fine too. I apologize. To help you clear your head out, here are 10 reasons why he texted you after two weeks: The first thing that you should do is check why he ghosted you in the first place. I texted him the next day appreciating the time he spent with me, and asking if he'd be interested in another date, and scheduled it that weekend. Mine is fading quick! Reply reply More replies More replies More replies [deleted] • Comment deleted by user. I spent a week feeling good about myself then bad about myself and overthinking absolutely everything. As a matter of fact. He did eventually get the ticket, I visited and everything went great. He sent me messages here and there for about two weeks before giving up. We finally went out and got closer and eventually slept together. If you already texted him about it I would wait a bit for him to reach out to get it otherwise I would bin it. We started texting back and forth like normal and decided on a day. He suggested they meet at a dive bar in Brooklyn—even though it was I remember once he told me he was charging his phone which is just ridiculous. We were talking for 4 and ½ months and he treated me just like he was interested in me, but then he started to show his true color's. I thought that would be the last time I reached out to him, to preserve my dignity. At that point I had just got a new job that was stressing me out, I had family issues as well and the stress of adding a date onto my plate made me even more stressed, so I ghosted him again. there’s nothing wrong with texting to say hi! I had a ldr and he was supposed to get me a ticket and he totally ghosted me because he didn’t get it. Suddenly I receive a message after 10 days saying "hey, sorry for the silence, how are you?" How do I He said I was “special” and “the one”, and on the date before he ghosted me he was talking about me meeting his mum like it was for certain. Called him and texted him again last night and no reaction again. I mean, it wasn’t like we’d dated for years. He texted me saying he was going to have more free time this week but hasn't even texted back. Yet he’s always one of the top viewers and watches nearly every story I But the next was his day off so I was expecting him to text me back and we start talking again. Ofcourse I was understanding, dont let these bitter guys get to you. And then he blocked me everywhere, including Steam, Discord, Reddit - you name it. Like an idiot, I contacted him again and we met for brunch like nothing had happened. He also used the excuse that he didn't know how else to contact me. He texted me if we wanted to help Before he ghosted me he said that he is a little stressed because his girlfriend was telling him to come home soon and finish his studies. At the beginning I wasnt fine with, but then I made peace with myself and I accepted what happenend. I gave my heart, body, and soul to him and he used me like a rag doll. He made dinner for me, we talked a lot and he kissed me. ” Claire AH says a short, direct text is a The next time you find yourself lost, you’ll know what to text after being ghosted so make sure you pay close attention. Thought he had ghosted me and I was really bummed. Yet we kept on seeing each other on a daily basis. There are no clear-cut rules for what to text after being ghosted (or if you should at all), but if you’re in the same boat — questioning whether or not you should reach out to a ERIC, 24, BANKING. I could NOT believe it. I’m sorry I know it sucks and it’s really hard to not message that person, but I don’t believe you’ll feel any better if you do, He/she ghosted me after things go well. If we do, i don’t want any bad energy between us. I asked him to clarify, he left me on read. I tried breaking up with him in person and he begged me not to, and then had the nerve to break up with me two weeks after over He tried to cuddle with me at night, and I pushed him away in the morning around 5 AM, and we had sex, and then I told him I had to leave right after he said bye and then turned away from me. I fucking love posts like this. He seemed really interested in me and was very attentive. I told him his silence hurt me but that I was there for him if he needed to talk. He texted me when he got home to say he had a great time, so I asked him if he wanted to do it again and I haven’t had a response in 48 hours. Set boundaries and make it clear you don't tolerate ghosting behavior. How can you be that unbothered to not even want to check your phone or text somebody you like I ghosted him after an hour of not replying to me but he responded to that after 3 hours. He texted me when I got home, and on the next day I texted him and we talked for awhile and we scheduled a date for Monday, well Monday arrived and he didn’t tell me anything so I sent him a text “so Yes, he has ghosted me but still following I mean really, if he ghosted you, why else would he still have your number? By popping in and saying hi, he’s really just testing the waters to see if you’re still interested. He kept reassuring me by saying how attractive I was and how comfortable he is around me. For example, if he's a naturally shy person, perhaps it took him a while before telling you how he felt about you, that could also explain why he ignores you after texting you. When he came back, he ghosted me for five days. but I texted nephew to call me and pretend she's in rush, while we talk on the phone, I left in jiffy. 5 hours later i texted him “it’s okay if you want to break up, i just want to hear it from you. I didn’t get a reaction. After 6 months of “dating. 1. I didn’t hear from him for about two months and then one night he texted me and apologized. I agreed. (30F) Yep! I kinda liked a guy and we weren’t even on official dates yet. He texted me explaining he was having a hard time at work and didn't wanna talk about it. He still keeps tab on my ig stories like every single one of em even if u posts like 6-7 stories, he views them all, so I’m also like stuck if maybe he’s still Once you respond, ask him why he ghosted you if he hasn't explained yet. Will he come back after ghosting me? I want to actually know whether he’ll come back or not. He ghosted me on New Year's Eve and stood me up. After 3 months of exclusively dating I lose my vcard to him. Talked for a few hours. I think you can take this one of two ways. The next day he texted me late in the evening how was my day etc. It was amazing, we were vibing. Wait and see how he acts when he gets home and if things get back to normal then great, if not then move on. But what did he expect I had such a busy week I got like no sleep so I was so tired. It's really annoying because it wasn't me starting conversations or sending songs it was him and He texted after work “sorry today was a douche of a day miss you” then “I’m gonna need some of you soon baby” then ghost. MORE: He Hasn’t Texted Me in 3 Days! What To Do When a Guy Doesn’t Text You. to apologize and explain what happened. One of our mutual friends told me that D told him and his group of friends that he ghosted me when they asked. I thought, maybe I was I sort of lured him to do it. This was around Christmas so I wasn't around and didnt respond till later. I had so much pent up anger from how he treated me, and I had Girl, my boyfriend ghosted me on Sunday. I texted him and i said you got the upper hand then he ghosted me, even though we are on Holidays now and I live alone but he left me alone at home at these days and it’s very He ghosted me on New Year's Eve and stood me up. So the next day he finally texted me back and said he didnt get back home till 1am because of the job and I said cool and was happy to hear from him again and asked him what happened at the job. And last night after his “sisters birthday party” we talked on the phone and he was asking could I spend the night this Labor Day weekend and I said “no it’s a little too soon for that we haven’t even had a After about a week of talking online, we decided to exchange numbers. Reply [deleted] This was not his character at all so I texted him the following day asking if he was alright and got complete silence. He doesn’t pushed me for that. Called him 6 times sent him 4 messages basically begging him to respond to give me something. He was coming back to my city for a vacation and kept asking me to meet up as friends and catch up. the type where He said he would text me. don’t be afraid of texting him/her to figure out what’s going on. He told me this has never happened to him before. He ghosted me for like three days until I texted him and asked if he was ok after the email to which he replied he was fine and it’s a bummer but he understands. At first my anxiety kicked in, but tried to calm myself down saying that he was either busy or didn't see the message yet. I didn't expect a reply and very much doubt I will ever hear from him again given the reason he ghosted me. Cause as the old saying goes “once a ghoster, always a ghoster. We texted for 6 months and when he came back from deployment he ghosted me. I was really excited to see him again and told him so. They complimented me on my appearance. when he ended stuff with me I told him I’d always love him and it’s kinda obvious to him that I still have a thing for him. As such, I don't want to continue our relationship because I don't trust you not to ghost me again. The final text is clear that he doesn’t need to text you. Like there’s no need to be needy or chase after someone who doesn’t want you. Even if you haven’t been fully ghosted, long stretches between After a while the convo started fading between us and we didn't talk for almot a week then he texted me again we went out and we kept texting each other until suddenly he left on read and we never spoke again. I was tired of putting in all the work so I just sent back a heart and that’s the last I heard from him. Who is this?" I only put it together that it was him after I did a reverse phone lookup and it pinged to his town. I sent him a break up message and just unfollowed him on everything (no response from him). Yet he did this to me. I’d only known the guy for two months when he ghosted me and I couldn’t figure out why it was so damn painful. Every time we broke up, he was very avoidant, unlike this time. He liked me too but I didn’t know, because we met as friends. To discern your feelings toward him. I will never know why. I asked him to do something, he couldn't, we would look for another time. I dont understand why even ask me out only to ghost me? Out of curiosity I texted him a "hi how are you" and he said he wanted to get together again, so we did, and I never heard from him after that. I allowed him to walk me home. No. I just wanna get y’all opinion. Its some painful stuff. I haven't replied and I'm scared to do that. Leave a Comment. that’s how i knew he blocked me. He was happy to see me and hugging him again just felt like the part of me that had been missing this whole time. I got this text a little while ago, about 3 months after at 4 jn the morning: "You definitely deserved a response, I've been the biggest of assholes I'm sorry. I have always had issues with intimacy and commitment (pretty much avoidant) so when I read that text I just felt that it would be best I didn’t respond. Three months later, I ghosted him. Recognize that it’s not your fault- it’s common to blame ourselves or wonder what we did wrong, but the truth is that ghosting is usually about the other person and their issues. A month later, I asked him why he ghosted me Someone who ghosts you isn’t someone you want in your life, Carolina Castaños, PhD, founder of MovingOn, an online healing program, previously told Refinery29. And because I knew this just wasn’t working at least for his sake i knew the right thing was to end it so I asked him to call me after work to talk and I’d leave him alone after the call. Should I text the guy who ghosted me? Here's what to send someone who left you on read if you need closure. When he got home he texted me a pic of his cat so I responded in the morning saying how cute his cat was. We were then NC for about 6 months until recently. We haven't been in touch for 4 months and on New Years day he sent me a message to apologize and that it was childish of him. It's all about the actions. " I appreciate your optimism. 4 days later, after I asked how he knew he was for sure ready now, he ghosted me, again. I can empathize with you. We had an extremely casual fwb thing for about 4 months. I always give 2 How to Heal After Being Ghosted. But instead, it made a difference to me, and that’s what matters. No response. we talked for a bit and he explained that he went ghost on everyone because he wasn’t doing well mentally. He tried to contact me a few times but I ignored and blocked him, this was a year or so after he ghosted me. I talked to him about this, that we can stop talking for a while "until your feelings go away" as you suggested. There was some sexual chemistry as we made out for a while. Wtf? Maybe I should not have text him back. He tried to cuddle with me at night, and I pushed him away in the morning around 5 AM, and we had sex, and then I told him I had to leave right after he said bye and then turned away from me. He’s not that busy and don’t tell me he had something to do. But I couldn't mentally handle it anymore when he disappeared for a month. " However, his reply was unacceptable & appeared on the screen painfully. I let him lie for 2 days because I knew better. He texted me after ghosting me for almost 25 days , Anyways, he’s always watching my Instagram stories even though I have no contact with him at all. It is mind blowing that someone can cut you off after 6. I suddenly went No Contact and began ignoring all his messages. Any advice is appreciated. Don't worry—we're here to help you work out exactly what to do next. after 3 months he texted me saying that he misses me. Fair enough. later that day i posted on my story and he saw it within 5 minutes. A few weeks after he ghosted me, my ex and I slept together after nearly every date. He Hasn’t Texted Me for a Month “What the heck! He ghosted me again!” If a guy hasn’t texted you in a month, the most probable reason is that he’s not that interested. I get it the sex was bad but he wanted to see me so bad, asking me every day every night, staying up late waiting for me to come back etc. The last thing I sent was a few funny inside joke pictures which he responded with a gif, also not like him. This tip is related to the one above. "When this is the go-to way of 4. I never got my answer. 2. He had groomed me as I texted once after I realized he was ghosting and it had been a week since we last spoke. All in all probably my “dream girl” chill, liked video games, funny, quirky, and cute. Words mean nothing. The story sounded very real to me though he should have at least texted he'd be much later. Your reply suggested you texted him when he landed, then texted him after the missed video call. That’s why this is a list of signs that he will or won’t. He even had an accident once and I texted him ''get well soon'' and he didn't even say thanks. We decided to hang out a evening at 10pm, in the afternoon around 6pm he texted “i might be a bit late” i say “okay let me know what time” he started listing all the things he had to do before seeing me and ends with “i have a dinner at 9pm so I don’t know if I might make it for 10pm” i say again “say a I (29-F) ghosted my ex boyfriend (29-M) after he sent me a text message telling me he does not feel the same way and breaking up with me after 8 months of being together. Whether you hurt him or vice versa. The worst part was, on Friday I saw him in the dorms, "I met a guy who was great, we did everything to be expected, after we had sex he dumped/ghosted me, If you haven’t texted him yet, he may be waiting to hear from you first. "I'm very surprised you reached out because after our last date a few months ago, you didn't text me back when I texted you a few days after the date. And there won’t be a response. "The next day, I texted him like, 'Haha wild night,' and he never responded. He showed up a bit late, but we had a wonderful time. I've been on 5 great first dates recently and then ghosted when trying to make a plan. He ghosted again. 2 months later, we are still talking and meeting up. Thursday he didn't text either. SO I (f22) and my bf (M22) have been together for over a year now. I still don’t know why. the same day, i texted him on insta and he left me on open. He wouldn't reply to my messages or take my calls, even though he was active on social media. All night he kept telling me how he had a great time. I responded sympathetically to his situation and added how it was hurtful and confusing when he ignored me. I basically was nervous because he disappeared for 1 day with no reply to my message. he might be wondering the same thing and be hesitant to text. I just noticed today (4days later) that he liked a social media post from two days ago so I know he got my message. I asked him 2 days later how his weekend was, no response. He even held my hand while he was driving and we kissed goodbye. 5 months. I wanted to make sure he didn’t feel rejected by asking me to hang out if I wasn’t available (because at the time I had plans every other evening and really wanted to see him again), so I texted him that I had a crazy schedule but I really liked In the days after, we texted and he asked me out again, when I gave him my availability, he never followed up. He could have just spent 10 seconds sending a text to let you We went for a walk after the dinner and made out. You win, he lost lol you clearly have high self worth and the universe will respond accordingly 😎 So after 2 months of nothing, he texted me 2 days back and asked me how i was doing. He told me that he's already over me and I was just a crush to begin with. 4 months ago i got ghosted by a guy friend without an explanation. He also happens to be the guy that had a girlfriend I Immediately got ghosted when I texted him on Instagram wishing him a happy birthday since he posted something about it in his story. Last weekend he texted me, again, It was an ex bf who just suddenly ghosted me and then a year or so later he texted me apologizing and all this but really by then I had just moved on. After a week, I messaged him on WhatsApp saying how he had really hurt me by disappearing the way he did. Him being bad at texting could mean he doesn’t know what to text you, what topic to start, or how to even start texting with you. I missed him too. Should I text him and ask if he wants to go out again? Text him something random to talk about? He understood and was very nice about it. “I simply don’t understandthe date went so well” This, unfortunately, is the brutal aftermath of a girl who’s been ghosted. Take some time to reflect on w When you text him after he ghosted you, you might think, “If I can just get him to answer once, I'll have the peace of mind to move on. Met via OLD. “Bye!” he exclaimed, “I don’t want to be with you!” I was taken aback, and I tried calling and texting him. I texted him and we went back to talking all day, I'm not sure why he ghosted me with no explanation. I know he’s going to ghost me again. I let him know when i was He agreed. When you don’t know these reasons and the text to send, you end up If you do decide to answer his text, start by telling him that ghosting is unacceptable and that you don’t appreciate being discarded so easily. I then explained over text how his behaviour really hurt me and if he didn't want to keep in contact anymore that it's fine by me and that he at least could tell my why. almost ran me over with the car, and then ghosted me. The topic of the argument was very silly. Because they know it worked before. Okay hear me out. It won’t change anything, he won’t respond. It was mostly, have a great day, hope you’re doing well, I love you, thinking of you. But it didn’t work and I look back sheepishly—kinda humiliated myself a bit. They even texted me saying they had a great time and all body language indicates they are comfortable around me. I still have his Nintendo switch which he ultimately gifted my kids and he still However. We had a really good connection going and then after a nice third date he ghosted me. Not like him at all. ” He ghosted before our 6th date. They always run away from their problems-situations. Hence he’ll be waiting for your generous, smart, and intelligent side to make the move and The other day he tells me he wants to take me out. 2) you told him calmly how he shouldn’t have ghosted you. Which is bullshit because I know he's got Snapchat, Instagram and for a few days after still had me on Tinder. Then, after almost 3 He sent me some vague message late at night about how he was spiraling, and then basically insinuated that he didn't "want [a relationship] anymore". Then, it became once every two days or so and now it's been four days since I last talked to him. I just feel so disappointed right now. My ex basically ghosted me after we had a kid, were living together, and I was completely dependent on him. which we kinda really didn't. Again, he left me on delivered. He’s probably living a double life. He told me that he moved on surprisingly fast, and I am glad he did. He said "so should we get coffee sometime then?" I said Around mid August he texted me after six days during we didn't text, I answered back like three hours later and he ghosted me. We started talking again and after a while we went on a date. He ghosted me for 2 weeks and the popped back up out of the blue. Dating Question i once fat fingered a date’s number and spent 3 days wondering why she never texted me back. I was dating a guy for five months until he ghosted me out of nowhere. He texted me the next day and I apologized to him, so we actually ended up going on our first date that day. I don’t think that I was the last person he ghosted, and I don’t think that he had any particular epiphany after the fact. Three days after I removed him from everywhere. Still, he’d That part checks out strongly to me, especially in smaller companies where I've been to a LOT of company after-work events with VERY heavy drinking. we went to the gym, he asked me if i loved him (after the day), i said why, then i said yes. He really behaved like he was nuts about me. I just waited like 3 months for him to reach out to pick it up and he never did. He ghosted me. I never watch his stories, I never texted him again after he ghosted me and I deleted his number from my phone. I hearted the message two days later . I honestly feel humiliated. They were good. We finished the night off cuddling and he drove me home. He ghosted me after this. We cuddled. So we do talk occasionally but we're good now. "I felt worried after you didn't text me for a few days, but when I saw you were still active on social media, I I asked him why he couldn't reply. I cuss If you’ve already texted him and he hasn’t replied, then no I wouldn’t reach out again, give him what he’s clearly asking for. I also said if he didn't want to continue, he should let me know. I texted him on Facebook again, asking him why he hadn't communicated, and he did see those messages but he didn't I texted him to have fun and he sent me hearts with a “thank you gorgeous” - next day, he abruptly disappeared like he ghosted me. Soon after, I couldn’t reach him and couldn’t see his profile picture— it was difficult to swallow, but he blocked me from social media accounts The next day after that no text. I've left him alone for a while. " And I just said "You did me a favour. I still keep liking his stories because he likes mine too. After the date he drove me back to my place. I was a little bothered because he didn't ask me to text him if I got I also messaged him after he messaged me saying I was no longer interested I’d think I was getting ghosted too. ” Should I block his number or just ignore his text if somehow After months of being ghosted and no contact, a guy that I fell in love with sent me a “happy belated birthday” text in which I replied a day later with a pretty simple “thank you”. After a while, he ghosted me randomly (his turn I guess). I texted him I got home, he responded saying he had a great time. I said I would be cool with that and then he goes ghost. Decide if you want to give him another chance if he seems genuinely sorry. Cancel reply. Oh. My bf (m22) ghosted me after I (f22) went to a concert with my friends [new] HI, I already have a gut feeling of how this is going to end but I need to hear from strangers on the internet. He says he's a bad texter and is really busy at work (but I'm sure if he wanted to text he could've). I think I’m extra sad because this is the 3rd time in a row I have dated then slept with someone and they have ghosted ugh. No matter my messages he just disappeared. He called me again after 20 minutes and when I asked him where you were, he told me why I didn't answer because maybe i need your help and he talked badly to me. Then he left me on seen AGAIN. That's the most recent one. As I'm an introvert he used to text starting of 2 months then slowly he started to call me everyday 2 day's and even I was texting him and calling him sometimes Then on one call he told I don't wanna give tag of Friendship which shook me and Yeah sure, I don't mind. He said "so should we get coffee sometime then?" But got ghosted, he acts so interested and only texts when I do the first move otherwise if there’s no one who do it first, there’s no communication. After 4 weeks, I reached out to him, shortly explained myself why I disappeared (without many details). I really didn’t see it coming so I was in denial for a little, but I wish I would have texted sooner. And for the most part, I get it. He added me back and texted me on WhatsApp(he still had my phone number apparently) that he is sorry and bla bla bla. Mourn his death. Once you respond, ask him why he ghosted you if he hasn't explained yet. And he claimed he would make it up to me Thursday night and give me a gift for my troubles and he wish he was with me instead . I texted him asking if anything's up and if I did something and he simply told me that things have been going on in his life, I asked if he wanted to call and talk about it and he agreed but never did. I’m obviously tempted to text him again but I think I know deep down he ghosted me but i’m just lying to myself and having hope that he will reply. It’s a weird thing. He was always texting me, telling me he was thinking about me, and he was always so attentive when we were together. This time, he only blocked me on WhatsApp and my The only reason he reached out was because you approached him and he thought you'd be an easy lay, hence why he texted you that he wanted to come over so late. BUT, I (31F) went on two dates with a guy. I did this because I have Avoidant Personality Disorder, and my feelings for him were so strong that they were overwhelming. It’s a nice ego boost for him to know that you’re Anyways, he kept on sending me songs he liked for about 4 months, but would ghost me anytime I'd reply. But hey Current gf ghosted me for 2 weeks after we first met because her gma died. He hasn't reach out since. I know, I’ve seen a ton of advice about not texting after being ghosted. I know he was struggling with home issues. a lot. This is why I didn't want to text him or anyone. Nice closure, not that it was keeping me up at night. After that, total radio silence. He ghosted me for 5 days and came back. Honestly i would like to remain friends with him,have fun and text like old times but even during those times, I've had anxiety and stress coz of this friendship, and i just don't want to go through that again. Two months later, last Friday to be exact he sent me a love song at 8:30 in the morning. Also don’t say you’ve been worried. I had no interest in reopening old wounds or him ghosting me again so I just blocked him. I told him drinks+food on me next time. I once texted a guy who ghosted me about a month after it happened. Guy texted me months after he ghosted me TLDR: A guy I went on a few dates with who basically ghosted me. I’m like crushing so hard cause of like the talks and connection so hard but got ghosted. He ghosted me for 3 days and then he apologized, I texted back shortly, I wasn’t passive agressive I just agreed with him that it wasn’t nice of him. So I waited for almost 2 days before texting him and a few minutes after I texted him I noticed he blocked me on WhatsApp so I texted him on Snapchat asking him about it but he didn't reply. Every time we broke up, he told me what the issue was. Not only did he leave me on read, but he went to hang out with a social group that we're both in (which was on public display). I expected him to respond and then I would say I had a great time again etc, but he never did. I didn't text him after Ran into him about a year after he ghosted (after 3 months of exclusively dating) and went the fuck off on him (in front of his new girlfriend, who likely suffered the same fate as I did). We texted right before thanksgiving, and I wished him a safe flight. He didn't respond. I poured out my heart to him. Strangely enough after he ghosted me someone joined our discord. Like whaaat is wrong with me? Like he tried coming back and I gave him major crap, for all the ghosted out there but I did some stuff afterwards. So after he texted me, we started talking for 2 days and randomly out of no where he stops texting me. Before sending the I went thru something like that, things where getting pretty intense so he ghosted me, came back after a month, ghosted me again, came back after a month and now it has been 2 months since the last time he ghosted me. Super hot guy ghosted me then texted after a month, then I ghosted him . He basically ghosted me, and for 3 weeks I texted him every day (only one text, I’m not THAT shameful! Lol jk). Ghosted after he asked me out on a date . 20's M. He ghosted but I can’t text him cause he blocked me, ghosted me in August I been NC he called in September I missed the called I called right back he had blocked me. If he's stringing you along, move on. My turn: A guy I’ve been seeing for 4 years stopped texting me leading up to the death of his grandma. His behaviour really hurt me. If I’m interested in seeing a girl again, I’ll make sure It's bad enough when a guy goes radio silent while you're texting, but it can be even more confusing when he pops back into your inbox hours, days, or even weeks later. The man that I thought was never going to hurt me broke my heart into a million pieces. I The last time that he didn’t answer I sent a text and he ghosted me for a week. I texted him after lunch if all was good. Although this may seem a bit extreme, I am a firm believer that women should simply have the mindset that he was just not that into you. My ghoster wanted to prove to me that they weren't an arsehole after they discarded me They ghosted me about 2 months later( about 9 months ago now). Anyway, 2 weeks ago, he contacted me again saying he misses me and he wants to try dating again. And that night was the last time i saw him. He was flirty, touchy and very engaged on our dates. You didn't give him sex and since the only thing he was after was sex he doesn't I told him to get bent and that it wasn't okay that he ghosted and stood me up. I texted the guy to remind him he left his shirt at my place. Again no text back for the rest of the day. Needless to say I never heard from him again after that! so there was this guy i was really attracted to (our eyecontact was very good) we talked and he said “we should go to the gym together sometime” i said yess and then later on i texted him to ask when we should go to the gym together. After 3 years 4. He finally texted me after 24 hours and said, 'I'm sorry, I can't do this,' and then blocked me. However, after the third date he started to respond with one word answers, just haha or lol. I tried to call but he never answered. Unsurprisingly, he left me on read! I felt so stupid after that, He ghosted me just last November and just for like a last thing I sent him a merry christmas and a happy new year message but I'm left inbox zoned and felt stupid for still sending it lol and now, About 3 days ago, I texted him how his day was going and I haven’t gotten a response since. Almost 3 days ago we had a fight in which both of us were wrong, I even apologised after the fight and he replied saying that he don't wanna talk right now. We texted and Snapchatted all the time. I feel so stupid. When I asked a friend she said it sounds like he wants something and probably just should block him. I said yes and told him to message me when he so here's my story. I texted him once if he is okay he answered me back in one sentence like he is not in the town now and thats all. After receiving a text, wait a few minutes before replying. Three months later I followed him on Insta again, cos I wanted a fucking answer. He alienated me after putting this on my body. then he messaged 5 minutes later asking me how i’ve been. It ripped me apart because i had told him that im scared of getting ghosted after losing my vcard. I met this guy (22M) on tinder we hit it right off, it was so nice and not pushed the conversation that after 3 weeks we decided to see each other and honestly, it was all fireworks, he even told me the phrase "where have you been all my life" i actually just allowed me to fall for this guy, we went on a couple of other dates as well it was magical. I texted him from a burner 2 days after leaving me on read “tell me you’re safe” he texted back “I’m safe” I am left so confused as literally it was all so magical. He was there for three weeks due to Covid, including a day spent on a ventillator due to bad asthma. That night, he texted and said he felt lucky to have met me and he couldn't wait to do a second date. The tale is as old as time: My friend, Lauren, a witty 24-year-old who works in PR, agreed to go out with a scruffy, 26-year-old musician after five days of flirty Hinge exchanges. Now it's been almot 3 months since we didn't speak. I (24F) have been texting this guy (22M) for a week, everything was cool. He literally ghosted me. After a week or so, I was having a hard time due to work/money issues and I stopped talking to him for a few days aka ghosted him. Week 2 he didn't initiate a hangout even though he usually does; we hang out on Thursday afternoons to late night but he texted Thursday night that he was sick. I ended up donating his shirt because I was moving and was donating stuff anyways. Also, his personality might be a good way to judge this behavior. All that day, Wednesday, I didn't hear from him. We communicated for a while after this, but he eventually ghosted me randomly, which I took okay-ish since we were already broken up. We hooked up two times, and the very last time, he ghosted me. everything seemed to He texted a week later telling me about some stresses he was dealing with at work. ” It feels like the perfect plan: one “Hey, are you OK? It’s been a minute. We’ve been on 3 dates (last one being a sleepover). Reply Link. He texted me that night that he made it home safely, and the next day he texted saying he had a great time. Next day I saw him view my IG story and realised he was ghosting. It's been two days and he hasn't responded. It’s so sad to see the state of things, because so many great and awesome people are being hurt by bad eggs. After three weeks, I reminded him he promised we'd stay in touch. So I was kind of ghosted and didn’t even know lmao. I texted him again a week later to ask him and he said "he had to focus on personal things, but could get together in the next week". He iss way out of my league he is 2 years senior to me and I'm chubby like not very fat but yea and tanned with curly hair and dark circles huge dark circles. Told me he got it but no email confirmation was sent to me. So at the end of the date he asked me for my phone number I texted him and that was it. He texted me exactly a year to the day after he ghosted me. 1) you held your ground and not letting him come up. Then days passed, and now two weeks. He reached out just to have me wait on him to tell me when he can see me. A week later, I messaged again, saying I was worried and wanted to know what was going on. Being ghosted really hurt my feelings. He just wanted me to break up with him and I wasn’t getting the signal. I I told him to be friends but without forcing (in case he was interested). But I know I can be good I was just so tired and I know men ghost if it was bad but I want to have sex with him again bc I took his number out of my phone and when he texted me back a year after that, I legitimately had no idea who it was and said "I'm sorry, I don't have this number in my phone. Even after being ghosted for a week I texted him that I missed him. I didn't text him after After a while I got very worried because it was very unusual for him. I would immediately think he got depressed but I remember seeing his dating profile stating a different location and saying “something causal, nothing serious - just visiting until Jan” It was a very friendly interaction even though he ghosted me. Reply reply throwaway556783 • I texted him for the first time at noon on Sunday so its been Yeaaahh good for you lady. I ghosted someone after seeing each other for about 3 months. We texted daily after that. he laughed a bit and then said me too. I was always glad I don't drink during those things as they went way overboard I thought. Here are a few tips for healing after being ghosted: 1. He immediately called me babbling about initial spark not being there anymore, but we're comfortable with each other, but he's very busy, but is still very interested and wants to keep on meeting. This time, we Hadn't heard from him in three weeks after talking daily and really connecting. He reiterated that his phone died, apologised but apparently he didn't ghost me. We went out for a few dates and texted each other constantly for a few months. Anyway- after we had sex, he was going to be with his daughter he said we'd talk later. He told me he felt the same way. 2 months after he ghosted me, he interacted with my story by clicking on After the end of 3 weeks of this, he texted me telling that he was finally done with his commitments and ready to hang out in the near future. I've had ones in the past that ghost, come back, talk to me for months, then ghost again. Instead of ghosting you in 5 months, they'll ghost you after a year instead. After that I didn't hear from him for a week, so I texted to ask him how it all went. yesterday i saw his profile and followed him and he followed back 10 minutes later. Yes, he wanted moreBut I don’t wanted to have sex, it was too soon for me. Haven’t heard from him in 3 days, should I assume I’ve been ghosted? I haven’t reached out either since our last hang out. He was more distant during the last month together and during the date, so I texted him the day after asking Earlier today I started realizing I might ene getting ghosted bc he hasn’t texted for almost 2 full days Against my better judgment, I decided to send him a text since I realized that technically I had never texted him after our date, but since he dropped me off, I figured he would text me when he made it home. We don't text much but the most we've ever texted was after our first date. Honestly, I just feel really stupid and feel like I've fallen into a trap but he seemed genuinely interested in me and was He said he shared something with me (that he was upset), and I didn't handle it as he had expected me to. For example you can start a lunch without texting you partner that your eating lunch I texted once (when I hadn’t heard back in 24 hours) then called once (after 3 days). I gave him a chance, we went on a date, and he explained that between the PTSD from combat, other soldiers that he knew dying, and his grandmother’s cancer diagnosis, he just That part checks out strongly to me, especially in smaller companies where I've been to a LOT of company after-work events with VERY heavy drinking. He still tried after that, which I always response with him being blocked. Now he hasn’t texted me in weeks and is now dating a new girl. Three He sent me some vague message late at night about how he was spiraling, and then basically insinuated that he didn't "want [a relationship] anymore". uzbxys rpkk kntt khjezys juglmv mpnw tky psmyk vtdyt rglyva